Spankfully Mine

Pura's Principles to Live By This post is written by Pura. It is Mistress Nichole who usually posts, so I thought I should specify. Mistress wanted me to explain my rules, and I will do so. I have been on domestic discipline blogs for a while, reading up on this thing we do, wondering if I was crazy to crave this kind of authority in my life. There is much more to Mistress and me than DD, of course. We are living in a Mistress/slave relationship, and that's not exactly normal, as my mother regularly points out. But we're pretty simple, really. We're not particularly kinky, as our lifestyle might represent. Mistress is not really into humiliation, and really, neither am I. We're not one of those "come here and be tortured, slave" situations. I mean no disrespect to people who have that sexual need. We just do not. We are trying for a balanced relationship. Mistress, as the Top and HoH, is the one to whom I submit. I, as the Bottom, often receive a ...

I like to say it's complicated... I was not a Mistress until I met my slave. Of course, at the time I called her Bethany, and she was not a slave at all, just a lost little girl on a road quickly leading nowhere. I will tell you the story of how we met when I get a chance. Until then, here's me... I am 30, curvy, and painfully responsible. I grew up fast in a very large, broken family. I raised some of my siblings when my mother was emotionally unresponsive, and my father was 2000 miles across the country. My best friend, Casi was my sustaining life-force through everything crazy, and she was the major pusher for me to accept Bethany's service. I put myself through school, and now I work a full-time job I love. Along with my work, writing is my true passion. I came out only a few years ago when I realized it was never going to happen; I was never going to fall for a man. It's a shame to think about sometimes, too, because there were some adorable men offering. But no...